"The Bad Girl's Guide to Getting What You Want" by Cameron Tuttle. I've mentioned this book before, but it deserves a proper blurb. I don't exactly know how to explain why this book is so empowering but I carry it like a bible. Not in a scary, bible thumping sort of way, but rather in a something to read when I'm sitting around with nothing to do to remind myself how powerful I can be kind of a way. This book teaches you to date yourself before inflicting you on anyone else. It teaches you to steal office products in new and creative ways. It teaches you to use your feminine powers, but not in a Scarlett O'Hara kind of way, to get apartments, men, and jobs by unabashedly figuring out what you want and allowing yourself to want it and take it. It teaches you that Bad Girls have all the fun.